The Echoes of Childhood: A Journey Through the Maze of Early Impressions and Their Lasting Impact

Ever noticed how children, in their innocence, unknowingly mimic the people in their lives, like they're playing a game they don't quite understand?

They're like little sponges, unwittingly absorbing everything in their environment. These tender minds are so easily swayed, that they almost involuntarily turn into miniature replicas of their idols. When those we look up to are there to catch us when we fall, it empowers us to step out of our comfort zone. Their support is our safety net, allowing us to grow and evolve, knowing that they've got our back. Sadly this isn't always the way it goes. Mishaps are a part of life, and they can be managed, right? It's only fair to acknowledge our emotions, however they manifest. And it's crucial to feel secure, whatever happens.

As a grown-up, you might get excited about tackling that escape room you've always been intrigued by. You see, what if your knack for solving puzzles is as unsteady as your hands Sure, people chuckle along with you, but as the laughter fades, you can't help but wonder what they're really thinking. 
Ever feel like you're more of a laid-back, chat-with-the-buddies type? Want to try cocktail making, but every time you go to give it a whirl, there's this nagging voice in your head saying, "You're better at sipping them than stirring them"?.

The echoes of our childhood can still play a tune in our adult life, right? It's like the kid in us is still calling the shots. If that's the case, I can help. I've got some experience in this, you know.

I remember growing up, I was never the most coordinated. I'd frequently drop things, but instead of ridicule or frustration, I was met with understanding and patience for my battles with fine motor skills. I remember the phrase "Go ahead and try, even if you make a mess, it can be cleaned ". That sentiment has stuck with me. I've always been my own worst critic, especially when it comes to the extra work, even if it's something I enjoy. Somehow, it just gets under my skin, and I end up being too rough on myself. I guess I was fortunate. Not everyone gets the same treatment. If I had been insulted or told I was worthless every time I spilled water making a cup of tea, I'd probably be more hesitant to take risks or try again. When we are growing up it is the remnants of our experiences linger, and we unknowingly lug these impressions into our grown-up lives. 

I want to help you by:

1) Creating a safe space - A space to understand your messages and where they come from

2) Supporting you to trust yourself - Changing this outdated tune and replacing it with a motivator to help get you going and becoming more of an emotion coach.
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3) Having more encouraging conversations with your inner child - Asking if I was a child now, what would I need to hear or be offered 

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